Imagine having a room full of people who all have the same curiosities, passions, and sexual interests as you. Now, throw them all on one platform where they can remain anonymous and discreet. How fun would that be?!

That’s precisely what you’ll find in the world of adult Discord. No judgment, no shame, just fun and understanding.

Let’s go over the different kinds of discord servers you can find in the adult chat world. But first, let’s briefly explain what Discord is for any newcomers who aren’t sure.


Adult-only Discord explained


An Adult Discord Server is an online community chat and live stream service.

While Discord has tons of different servers dedicated to all kinds of topics and interests, the adult Discord servers are designed to connect consenting adults, allowing them to enjoy the following:

  • A safe and secure environment for adults from all over the world to connect with each other.
  • A huge variety of topics and interests to choose from and talk about without shame.
  • A platform for enjoying live performances by professional cam girls.
  • A supportive and judgment-free community of like-minded adults.
  • An open place to share thoughts, feelings, and experiences with others who might have helpful insight.
  • A place to meet new friends and lovers and build long-lasting online relationships.
  • A place to try new things and be sexually bold in ways that have never been explored.

Types of Adult Discord Servers


Discord servers really do come in all shapes and sizes, but they can broadly be divided into two main types: public and private.

Public servers are pretty much open to anyone who wants to join—usually having a wide range of topics and activities for members to participate in.

Private servers, on the other hand, are invite-only and typically have a specific purpose or theme. This is, more often than not, where you’ll find the most popular adult-themed Discord servers.

Both public and private servers can be found for almost any interest, including gaming, virtual sex, music, TV shows, movies, books, art, relationships, and so much more.

Chat Groups

Adult Discord chat groups give people a way to connect with other adults who share their interests.

Adult chat groups usually involve the sharing of naughty or NSFW content like photos, illustrations, memes, stories, comics, and GIFs. Some of these groups are more extreme than others. And some are pretty soft.

Cam Experiences


Discord has become a popular platform for adult content creators and consumers alike. Whether for a simple chat or more elaborate and exotic cam shows, adult Discord servers are the perfect place for watching a live show.

For those unfamiliar with the term, “camming” refers to live streaming oneself performing sexual acts on camera. Cam models put on these sex shows in exchange for tips or pay per minute.

How to find a discord dedicated to virtual sex

The easiest way to find and join an adult Discord is by searching for servers dedicated to camming. Or you can first find a cam girl that you’re into and follow the links she shares to her discord.

These camming servers typically have a designated channel where performers can stream their shows live. Viewers can then tip the performer using Discord’s built-in donation system.

Another way to find cam shows is to look in servers dedicated to specific fetishes or kinks.

Many of these servers have channels devoted to webcamming, and performers will often stream shows specifically tailored to the interests of that server’s members.

This is one of the best ways of finding niche content that you might not be able to find elsewhere.

Discord roleplaying games


Role Playing games (RP) are incredibly popular on adult Discord servers. These adult games have players taking on roles of fictional characters and interacting with each other in order to tell a story.

The most popular RP format is text-based, but there are also voice-based and video-based RPs.

Text-based RPs can be played on both text and video chat rooms. In a text-based RP, players take turns writing posts in which their character speaks or takes action.

The other players then respond accordingly. Voice-based RPs are similar to text-based RPs, but instead of typing out their posts, players speak them aloud.

Video-based RPs are the rarest type of RP; they require all players to have webcam access and tend to be played on specialized websites or apps.

Most RPs have some sort of setting, whether it be based on an existing work of fiction (like Harry Potter) or completely original.